Communicate with your heart!

It is said that only 7 per cent of communication is through the words we speak. Often in a relationship, letting your inner voice speak to your partner is very important. No matter how good your relationship may be, there will always be times when it runs into difficult moments.

In these moments, it is crucial for you to express yourself- indulge in heart-to-heart talks. Be open. honest and gentle to your partner during the talk. This could be a very powerful yet loving means of communication as it allows you to connect on a deeper level rather than just simply that of the body or mind. It is the connectivity at the level of the heart, which is where the true you resides!!!

One danger of any relationship is that you presume that your partner can read you like an open book. That is not the way! No relationship is complete without communication. Take this advice: Express yourself fully to your partner from now on!

How committed are you in your relationship?

I have to say, I am quite pleased with the responses I got from my previous post "The Energy of Love'. As this is my first bogging project, the comments I received certaintly encouraged me to continue blogging. Thank you Readers!

Today, I shall discuss about the issue concerning 'commitment'. The common belief is that a relationship is supposed to be fifty-fifty or half-half commitment from both parties. GIVE UP THIS THOUGHT AT ONCE! It is this belief that has led to many break-ups.

If you do not want to follow this footpath, then give your 100 per cent without waiting to see whether or not your partner is giving anything. A loving relationship needs full commitment!!!We have been conditioned to believe that relationships are sustained by both partners giving an equal and balanced amount in order for it to be successful. To me, it will not work this way.

The moment you enter into a relationship, you should not start thinking in terms of numbers. If you are so calculative, the relationship will be reduced to a petty mindset, where each person looks at the other' s contribution before their own.If having a relationship is so important to you, why not look at relationship differently? Regard them as a source that does not dry up, even when giving all the time.

If you want to spend your life with your partner, commitment is a MUST! It sometimes means giving up something to gain something. For example, cancelling something you would like to do in order to be able to enjoy something your partner wishes to do.

You have to be committed to your relationship and without doubt, commitment comes easily if you love somebody and strongly believe in the value of commitment. Before you think I sound naggy, STAY 100 % COMMITTED if you want to preserve your relationship! If you don't follow my advice, then be prepared to regret!!!!