Remember the story of Romeo and Juliet? This romantic story is re-enacted everyday. People don 't jump in love, they fall in love. It is almost an involuntary reaction... You cannot make it occur when you want it, who you like it or even where you want it to be.
Okay, I know you must be thinking that I am saying the same old stuff again from my earlier posts. BUT , this is what everyone wants to know deep down their heart.
What is so good about falling in love? How does it contribute to our emotional well-being?Reading John Hamwee (Love's energy) , I would think that the author has some interesting views on falling in love.
According to John, The body has a particular vibrant energy. When a person falls in love, the vibration of the energy body changes, it vibrates to a different frequency, gets bigger and becomes more organised. The resultant of the expansion of the energy body is that you feel physically bigger than before, and with that goes a feeling that you are stronger, more important, more valuable. You will feel more confident and the old hibitual feeling of being small is replaced by the new experience of being big. Feelings of relief and joy come with that.This is also why falling in love can be so healing.
To change a person who lacks in self-worth into a confident and cheerful one takes alot of time and required a great deal of discipline. By contrast falling in love is like magic. You will get an instant release without the effort.
Love can heal emotional wounds. Emotional wounds affect the energy body. Say you are betrayed by your good friend. It feels like a sharp cut in the energy body. A cut that is non-physical but extremely painful. Falling in love, like Yoga or Qi Gong fill in the hole in the energy body.
Falling in love simply restore us to our true capabilities. That is why it feels so good to be in love; it returns us to our true state. No other methods can regain our senses as quickly and effortlessly as when we fall in love.
6 comments:
Agree with your post alot.Love your analogy.Keep up the good work,heh.Take care william.
I agree.. love really can can boost a persons confidence and self-worth..
of course love can also lead some pretty dramatic conflict too.. if a loved one betrays by sleeping with another person, it can make that person do some really crazy things...
of course a love of a freind is the best cure for that...
nice blog man...
It's easy to build a relationship with someone. It starts with conversation and learning about one another and you'll find that it rapidly moves on to he-ing and she-ing as that's how we're all programmed. Keeping a good relationship is tougher because it seems that one person tends to think all the work has been done and a relationship is always evolving.
I like the statement that being in love is our true state. I'm not sure it is but it sounds terrific. I love being in love.
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